Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Parenting Plans & the "Best Interest" Standard

As a divorce lawyer, I’ve seen how difficult it is for a parent to take the “high-road” when the ex is playing games and uncooperative.  But please remember the default position of doing what is in the “best interests” of the youth athlete.  

And I wish I could say that being the “bigger person” miraculously changes an ex’s bad behavior.  Chances are it won’t.  What it will do, however, is create a more positive experience for a child stuck between two warring parents. 
One anecdote I share with parents every season is Alec Baldwin vs. Kim Basinger.  After a nine year marriage, Baldwin and Basinger waged war with an eight year custody battle, involving $3M in court costs and legal fees, and 90 + court proceedings. Who benefited from that?