Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Divorce & Aligning Youth Sports Goals

Aligning Goals and Ego Summary:

1. Ask Questions:  ask your child why he or she wants to play sports.  Align    your goals to their goals (not the other way around.)
 
2. Check the Ego: do whatever it takes to create a positive, aligned set of expectations with the ex for supporting the youth athlete.  Do you or the ex fit one of the common profiles – overbearing; overcompensating; absent; passive-aggressive; or obstructionist?  Check the ego.  Do what is in the best interests of the youth athlete.
3. Who’s Experience?:  keep in mind that this is your son or daughter’s youth sports journey.  Don’t use their experience as a way to relive past glories or make up for lost time.

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